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TJ Bender, Continuous Improvement Manager on Notable Men

TJ Bender

Continuous Improvement Manager, Oshkosh Aerotech

My current manager Brittney Hanson has been a major supporter with her mentorship and allowing me creative freedom to grow and learn.

Robert Thomas Madsen, Search Consultant on Notable Men

Robert Thomas Madsen

Search Consultant, GPac

I have 3 big mentors in my life. They are my dad, Gail Kodama, and Tamara Thomas. My dad continues to push me and teach me about sales. Gail taught me how to be a leader and not a boss, which helped me succeed as a manager with Spectrum. And Tamara, my current boss at Gpac, puts her all into making everyone on her team better in fact, she broke her ankle and still helped me while in the ER. There are no off days for her. I just can't credit my success to one person. They all deserve credit for their role in my success.

Douglas Taylor, Business Development Manager on Notable Men

Douglas Taylor

Business Development Manager, TRP Laboratories

"Success is 98% perspiration and 2% inspiration" - Kim Taylor. My dad was my mentor and always made the point that anyone can have a great idea but only those who work hard towards their vision will achieve success. You need to get off the couch, get out from behind the desk, actually go and do the work and meet people to achieve success. Ideas are only 2% of the equation.

Daniel A Groves, Territory Account Manager III on Notable Men

Daniel A Groves

Territory Account Manager III, Wilbur-Ellis Company

The mentor who changed my perspective was Rod. Rod knew the industry inside and out. He taught me to always anticipate the next play and the possible outcomes.

Suresh Yaralagadda, CEO on Notable Men

Suresh Yaralagadda

CEO, Innerbloom

My first real boss, Marcus, never raised his voice. Not once in three years.

I was 23, ambitious, and loud about it. I thought pressure meant intensity: more urgency, more hours, more noise. Then a launch we'd spent eight months on fell apart two days before shipping. The room went into panic, and I was leading it.

Marcus walked in, sat down, and waited until everyone stopped talking. Then he said, "The calmest person in the room gets to decide what happens next."

Twenty minutes later, we had a plan. We shipped a week late, and it worked.

What he taught me wasn't a management tactic. It was a way of being. Calm isn't weakness, and it isn't sedation. It's clarity under pressure, and it's the most magnetic trait a person can have.

I've built my life, and eventually a company, around that idea. Innerbloom's whole promise is calm, clear, and connected, because Marcus showed me that presence is power.

Every hard day as a founder, I ask myself one question: am I the calmest person in this room?

If I'm not, I'm not leading yet.

Daniel RyanCotler, Founder & Executive Director, Heal Loudly Movement | Creator of the Narcissistic Psychological Warfare Framework | Author | Survivor Advocate on Notable Men

Daniel RyanCotler

Founder & Executive Director, Heal Loudly Movement | Creator of the Narcissistic Psychological Warfare Framework | Author | Survivor Advocate, Heal Loudly Movement

Anthony Scariati, my former boss at Pizza Hut, was one of the first people who taught me to take real pride in myself and in the work I did. He saw potential in me that I didn't always see in myself, and through his guidance, he helped me understand that I was capable of far more than I believed. That lesson stayed with me: sometimes the right mentor doesn't just teach you how to do a job. They help you recognize what you're capable of becoming.

Zachary  C. Coneybeer, Sales Account Manager on Notable Men

Zachary C. Coneybeer

Sales Account Manager, The Vomela Companies

My mentor, Gary Katz, once encouraged me to consider a simple but powerful question: "What makes Zach happy?" He told me that if I could truly understand the answer, both my personal and professional life would thrive. That advice changed the way I approached my career. Instead of simply pursuing the next opportunity, I began focusing on finding genuine fulfillment in my work. That shift ultimately led me to where I am today a place in my career where I am challenged in healthy ways, encouraged to grow, and able to be myself.

Gary taught me the importance of authenticity and of surrounding myself with like-minded professionals who value and support one another. Sadly, Gary passed away in 2023, but his mentorship continues to influence the way I work and the way I lead. To honor him, I try to share that same wisdom with the people I meet: give people the freedom to be themselves. When people feel comfortable being who they are, they are happier, more engaged, and more fulfilled. And when you find genuine happiness and purpose in your professional life, that is often when meaningful success follows.

Vernon A Lomba, Distribution Manager on Notable Men

Vernon A Lomba

Distribution Manager, Coca-Cola Beverages Northeast

The most influential person on my long journey within the Coca-Cola system cannot be put to just one person. There have been so many people that have helped mentor me over the last 33 years. I in all fairness would have to give credit to three people, the first being Robert Proulx because in the early stages of my career I thought he was a very tough person and at times unfair with how he worked with me. It wasn't until later in my career when he was retiring he told me that he saw something in me that I didn't and he wanted me to succeed and wanted me to be able to handle making decisions that may not be popular, but wanted me to be able to answer for them with confidence and well thought out responses and to be passionate. The second person would have to be Wayne Martins because he let me come into Boston and absorb as much as he was willing to teach and prepare me for my current role as the Distribution Manager for Coca-Cola Beverages Northeast's largest sale/distribution facility. Then there is Dave Omobono the General Manager for the Boston facility. Dave gave me an opportunity to show that I was ready to lead as a supervisor when others may have not thought I could. He offered advice and believed in my leadership abilities, he believed in me from day one as a supervisor. Even though we may not always agree he has given me opportunity to take chances and use a more modern approach in my role.

Ernesto Marino, Interventional Radiology Technologist on Notable Men

Ernesto Marino

Interventional Radiology Technologist, University of Florida

In my career I had lots of people that influenced my skills on both sides of the spectrum, on what to do and what not to do. Most notable are Dr. Carlos Sanchez and a dear friend Dr. Curtis Anderson, they reshaped the way I approach by reviewing and planning.

Steven  M DeLong, Founder and CEO on Notable Men

Steven M DeLong

Founder and CEO, Zarco AI Systems, LLC

I am not self-made. God changed my life. Gene shaped the work. Diana carried the prayers. Megan stands with me. The rest is show up, master one skill, and help the next person.

Daniel Silver, Director on Notable Men

Daniel Silver

Director, Vestian

I'd have to say my last partner. We were partners for 7+ years, specializing in Tenant Representation and he was also the Managing Director at my previous firm. As a bonus, he was a commercial real estate litigator before becoming a broker and his mentorship for the past 7+ years in lease negotiation and contract review has helped me immensely to notice how certain lease terms impact the overall expenses throughout the lease term, and how certain problems that many consider common, can wind up costing thousands to a Tenant. I was also taught to put myself in my clients' shoes and listen carefully to their needs and/or concerns, which helps to locate the perfect property for their present and future office or warehouse needs.

Philip M. Baker, Life Coach on Notable Men

Philip M. Baker

Life Coach, Reimagining Life Coaches

The person that influenced my life the most and established lifelong lessons in me that I'll never forget is a gentleman by the name of Franklin Shands. He was very instrumental in me understanding the value and the worth that I had in me after so many hope-deferred experiences and life tragedies, losing my father along the way. My mother realized that I really needed some help, and he doubled as my art professor as well as my coach. Even more than that, a father figure that I can look up to. He has long since passed from this life, but if he were here to see who I've become, he would be cheering me on like he used to when I was running around the track! He always made me believe that I could do whatever I set my mind to, as long as I stayed the course and dealt with my fear and pain along the way. So, here's to you, Coach Shands!

Kevin R. Meals, Nursing Home Administrator on Notable Men

Kevin R. Meals

Nursing Home Administrator, Arcadia Care LLC

With the mind can conceive and believe you can achieve! My first mentor M Shapiro.

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